This new found anger
Something horrible has happened in my wife's family. It has ripped a new whole in my heart. I am devastated by this but think the happening could have been avoided if my wife would have just backed me up when it came to raising her son instead of letting her mother tell us how to raise him, He wouldn't be so screwed up and he wouldn't have made these horrible choices. I feel anger towards my wife. I am not proud of it. I hate it because she cant defend herself. I love her I know I do but I am just so angry at her. This is really hurting me. Humor me please and tell me what she might say.
I posted in both of my support groups because I need answers
I posted in both of my support groups because I need answers
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Honey.We have discussed this. Coulda, shoulda, wouldas. You cannot go back and change the past. You are a wonderful person and all you can do is change your thinking of who you are today. A warm, caring and loving man.
Peace my friend...
Jules
Drew I know I haven\'t been much help to you. You the lady I mentioned in my message to you? Anyway, she got very angry at God when she lost her husband. I said \"I thought you couldn\'t get angry at God\". She told me we have a right to our feelings. That didn\'t mean she didn\'t love God. She was just angry. It was a stage of her grief. God knew she loved him. You wife knows you love her. She understands your anger. She loves you!! Just don\'t feel guilt for your anger.
What would she say? I don\'t know. I truly ddon\'t believe the way we are raised makes us child molestors. It\'s a horrible mental illness.
Your stepson may have other issues from the way he was raised but not this one. There is a very good reason I say this Drew.
Hugs. This not your fault. Nor your wife\'s.