This keeps me strong

We win victory over bereavement only when we face our loss, accept our loss, and then make our way through and beyond our loss. How do we make our way through it and beyond it? We do so by deliberately re-entering the world of daily activity-the busy world of problems, duties, friendships, opportunities, satisfactions. An immolated, resentful, self pitying life is a doomed life. Only the life which deliberately picks up and starts again is victorious".