This is nuts
This is nuts I think its time to look for a new Doctor. After being with my OBGYN since I was 13 and us ttc since we were 18.. and seeing a doc in Germany I finally learned that I have a tipped Uterus... So when I came back to the states I asked why they never told me, she said oh we thought you knew. Then after over 4 yrs of storing and IUI I came back yet again to the States and tried IUI last month failed cycle.. So I called my doc and said is there anything we can do different, she said no it was a great cycle... Then the blow that was never told to us.. With a normal couple ttc its a 15 to 20% chance, but when there is a male factor its less... OMG what male factor we were told we were both find now all of a sudden were being told that hubby is the issue... All this time thinking it was me.. so I asked why again we werent told and she said oh I thought you were and thats y you stored and are doing IUI. seriously how do you not make sure you patients know this important info.... It wont matter soon I will be leaving on the 11th to go back with hubby in Germany...
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I\'m so sorry! I would definitely look for a new doctor. In the meantime, have a safe trip to Germany.
How frustrating! Throughout my infertility journey there have been surprises too. The minute you think you have it all figured out, there is another hurdle. I\'m learning/have learned to not even trust the experts.... to research and learn as much as I can and always question. Sometimes not that even seems like enough. Customer service in any profession stinks these days. Hang in there. ;-)
Oh my goodness, how frustrating. I would say yes find a new Dr and I would find a specialist at this point. OB/GYNs can only do so much. Have a safe trip back to Germany!
It is frustrating and thank you
That\'s BS, ugh! Sorry you are just finding this out now. I agree you should look for an RE, they will help you much more.
Doctors can make me so mad - they act all know-it-all and/or non chalant, don\'t inform us of things we should be informed about. I agree, it\'s time to find a new doc!!!!
Thanks everyone I am hoping to go back to the doc in Germany who is the one who told me about my tipped uterus.. hoping I have better luck over there..