Thinking more positively
I am going to try to start thinking about things in a more positive way. I tend to do the old "knee jerk" reaction and get upset over stupid things that happen and it puts me in a very negative mood from then on. My husband tends to forget a lot of what he says needs to be done or how much we are to pay to his ex-wife for 1/2 of the kids medical and school stuff. When he shows me the e-mail his ex-wife sent him I write her out a check. Then I am told later that the check or money we owed her was supposed to be paid directly to the doctor or the college and he swears he told me that. So now, I am just going to take it in stride and keep a positive attitude about those kinds of situations as well as thinking more positively about my own medical issues and treatments.
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Skeeter ask the ex wife to cc you on the comunications
hisknobs I would but she despises me. She won\'t even call the house phone she calls my husbands cell phone. I\'m just not sure the best way to do it except tell my hubby that whatever monies she says we owe I want a copy of the receipt and will just make check payable to her - it\'s easier to send one check to a doctor\'s office or a college instead of sending two separate checks from two different people. I\'m going to keep it easy for everyone and mail her the check for our 1/2 and in the meantime the ex can pay the balance in full.