Things I Have Learned
Since being laid off, my lifestyle has changed. And, I've learned a few things about myself and my surroundings. First, with all the free time I've had, it's still hard to want to clean the house. It needs it, but I just don't want to do it. I did, finally, clean the bathtub that had been dirty since I moved in. Scrubbing bubbles and other fancy bath room cleaners just didn't do it. Bleach didn't either. Used Ajax powder cleaner and with 4 tries using a mop, I got it clean. I use fewer dishes when I'm off, but I tend to let them stack up in the sink until there are too many for the drying rack. It's easier being a slob. With job searches on the internet, clothes aren't a big deal,,,gym shorts and t-shirts are the norm. Who's gonna see? Showers and shaving are optional. Laundry is an option. Except for underwear, what is there? A shirt and jeans for interviews, going to the bank and grocery store, and a few towels and wash rags are all there is. Hand washing the undies keeps me from the laundromat. One problem though,,,they just don't come out like in a normal wash. Kinda stiff. I must hide my cigarettes unless I want to smoke 2 packs a day. Plus, there's no money for them. Coffee and iced tea are my friends. Saltine crackers can be a good snack. Tuna or chicken salad can be extended with macaroni. Plus, I don't need crackers or bread. Grocery prices, utility costs, insurance premiums, gasoline prices, and rent don't go down just because I don't have a job. And in regard to that, running my air conditioner at medium temperature and low speed, doesn't lower my electric bill that much. Even though the internet is a vast resource, there's really not that much to do on it. Cable television doesn't have that much to offer,,,many of the channels I watch repeat the shows shown in the morning in the afternoon, but it's a good time to catch up on old episodes of my favorite shows. Regardless of how many movies I have in my collection, I really can't find any I want to watch. Foxy is very patient. And last, but not least, because i've known it for a long time, I've got great friends here who support me during my times of trouble and celebrate with me in my times of joy.
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I really couldn\'t have said it better myself, Mike. And so eloquently, lol. I know just how you feel, and even though i am working, i still don\'t want t clean the house, because like you said, who\'s to see. Hubby is on the road most of the time, when he comes home he doesn\'t really care what the house looks like, he is interested in a shower and a good meal. Perhaps things will get back into the norm for you once you\'re back working again. Take care, lots of hugs and kisses, Deb :o)
LOL...I love how you\'re so REAL Mike !! Not many would admit showers are optional,or their tub hadn\'t been cleaned since they moved in ,etc..you admit your a slob..that is great!! Not that you\'re a slob, but that you have no problem admitting (in detail even!! LOL) it!!ahaha!! You\'ve listed alot of revelations...you\'ve learned alot during this time...and so have I ,about you!! So glad I had this chance..you are great...in so many ways..really, really, great .xox