things are looking up

if i had any advice to give to all the jealous ladies, it is just simply live life! it used to depress me just thinking of all the time i have wasted being jealous and insecure and made it so much worse but i am slowly realizing that it is just that: a waste of time. i am trying to move on...there is so much more to do than worry that you're not good enough for anyone, be good enough for yourself!!! do something, anything!! don't sit and stew that's the worst thing you could do. we have to keep our minds on other more important things. get a hobby or just spend time doing things you know make you happy and the things that make you sad will have no more room to grow. i have been doing so well lately but by no means think that i am "cured", i have accepted that this is a life-long struggle but does not need to be a daily issue. i know i will feel low now and again but i also have to be able to drag myself up and out of it. THERE'S SO MUCH TO DO!!! so much good stuff and you know what works the best is helping other people. there is no reason to feel bad about yourself when you know you've made someone else's day better, it doesn't even have to be someone you know.so let's get out there and take charge of our lives and our happiness!!!