things are coming together.....

Heard from the detective.  He thinks what I proposed is an excellent idea.  Detective K said he's had numerous parents approach him for information and he didn't have any.  Actually, I find that kind of odd.  Not that it's his job to do it BUT they do have someone who is hired by the city and school (family services person) who could have been the one to tap into.  I suggested in my e-mail to him that she may be the one who could contact the parent and possibly work with me to obtain the information.  All this is pretty straight forward "stuff" so it shouldn't be too difficult.  I told him that I could make up a sample packet & I still may do that.  Perhaps my husband could tap into his friend who runs an ad agency and print a folder of some kind.  My husband helped him land some business .....he might be willing.... T didn't want to get up and work at his landscaping job this morning, claiming that he has a headache and that he's tired.  Could it be because he might have been on the phone with his boss's daughter late last night?  I told T that if didn't get up no socializing at all today.  He got up.  Technically, he should be grounded for coming home passed curfew last night.  Husband doesn't want to touch that because he says he's been doing well.  According to our contract, for being late for curfew means he's grounded for 2 days.  He was only a half hour late ....decided to walk home instead of calling us for a ride.  There HAS to be some kind of consequence.  My husband gets mad at me.  Sometimes I feel like the warden.  It isn't a fun position to be in and it isn't like I enjoy catching him doing something wrong but we can't ignore the fact when he does something wrong - especially during this critical time of his recovery....