They went to IKEA together

I'm not sure whether this entry will be depressing or humorous.. maybe a bit of both?  STBX told me he was going to be helping the skank he started cheating on me with 8 months ago (you know, the final whore who broke the camel's back) put together furniture today - I cut him off before he could say much more than that, I really don't want or need to know the specifics, it's only going to make it worse for me to know what they're up to.  Anyway, turns out they went to IKEA together and bought furniture (and assembled it)!  How cute.  How adorable and together-like.  How "us" 10 years ago, just starting out and not able to afford much.  I know I'm having a bitter moment here, but better to have it here than in person where he can see it affect me.  In another way I find it darkly funny - he hasn't changed his ways at all and is really just starting over with a new person who will buy into his BS (he's not been faithful to her already in their short time together, though I'm sure she doesn't know or believe that).  Serves her right I guess?Did I mention STBX tried to ask me how I'd feel about him introducing her to my kids the other day?  Needless to say that discussion didn't go too well.. I think he should submit those requests to me in writing next time so I can think about them first and calm down to a more logical state before responding.  "She's such a good person," he claims!  Really?!  Really.  I am very sure that the woman who has shown me with her actions that she has zero morals and no character to speak of will be a great influence to have in my children's lives.  (The sarcasm is coming through, yes?)On a positive note, I'm trying hard to focus on me and forget about them, which is obviously working really well.  I have managed to read like three books this week though so that's always a plus!

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Sorry you have to have these moments. Sometimes when I read your entries I feel like I am reading about my life. Our stbx husbands are so alike. Your analogies made me laugh. Mine wants to introduce the OW to my kids too. I am against it whole heartedly. But I guess we really can\'t control what they do with the kids as long as it\'s safe. I can only hope that my kids see through her and take whatever she has to say with a grain of salt. I am trying to forget that the stbx is having \"us\" like moments with the OW now. I will sit back and breathe a sigh of relief that she has to deal with his BS now and I am free. Glad you vented here. It helped me too reading your entry. Thank you!!