These days are though.
Yeah these days are though i guess cause all of my friends not changed to my direction. over past 2 years i changed a lot i know sound odd but i need more friends. whom understands me.I have some kinda negative thoughts about having a GF ( i say i'm a sigma) but the other side of me wants that. I donno how or maybe or should be in area that finding a GF is suitable ?
Personally i don't consider any fake love. just a friended zone to my realm.
tried before but the girl didn't accept my request and in person i'm in a lack of confedence.
Replies
Hey Mohsen...It doesn't sound odd that you would like more friends, especially ones who are heading in the same general direction as you. We all change through time, and the friends we have when we are younger are not always our closest friends as adults. It also makes sense that as a sigma, you have mixed feelings about having a GF. In my opinion, an ideal GF for a sigma is one who isn't overly clingy, possessive, and emotional; who doesn't play games; and who can respect that you're an independent person who needs some space. (Now that I think about it, most guys are looking for that type of GF!) I'm sorry you struggle with a lack of confidence. I believe that will improve with time, practice, and perhaps therapy to get to the root of why you feel the way you do.
Speaking of therapy, I didn't have the opportunity to comment on your post in the bipolar forum regarding psychiatrists and therapists. Have you ever considered online therapy? I researched a bit, and found this website. Would it be a possibility for you?
https://mantracare.org/iran/online-therapy/
Have a good weekend!