The wedding
I was able to upload photos of the wedding. It was a good time but I will never have a wedding in my yard again. It was so much work getting everything ready and then we had to stuff everyone under a tent in case of rain. And the tent took away the beauty of the ceremony. But its over and it was a good time had by all. My daughters happy and thats what matters. Her hubby still isnt my first choice but I have to let her be her own person. My parents didnt like my ex either but I had to make my own decisions. Right or wrong. Which by the way my parents were so right about him. He drove me so nuts during my daughters wedding. He was driving my daughter crazy too. But god forbid I toss him out. He was hitting on anybody and everybody. Didnt matter how old they were. He was drunk as a skunk. He kept going up to my family and remenicing about the old times and they cant stand him. We have been divorced for 17yrs and he kept hugging me saying he still loved me and how happy he was that Jenn was getting married and having a baby. Just another kid that he wont be a part of. The girl that was Jenn's maid of honor is her halfsister from the women I left him for cheating on me with(our babysitter) Jenn wanted her at the wedding too. I didnt care. Its been 17yrs I could care less. I actually liked seeing her. I was good friends with her whole family before the affair. But her and Tim(my ex) started fighting about child support. Deja'vu. Thank God Jenn didnt see that but she heard about it later. Its her dads life story, so she wasnt surprised. She's glad he gone back home and so am I. He moved from Mass to Kansas in March to start a new life. Lets hope he stays there. He's burned all his bridges here. It will take him a few years to burn them all in Kansas.
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Sounds like a good time was had by all - even if your ex was his old obnoxious self. I learned when the kids were little how much more work goes into having a party at your house - so their kids b\'day parties were always at a fun place - so much easier. Now that it is over you can relax & get ready for that grandbaby....