The ups and downs
First, I am wondering why I am seeing posts from several years ago. I tend to read them without reading the date
So. We got our Covid shots last week. My llttle tribe of wrinklies have gotten shots too so we should be okay to hang out soon! We have been meeting outdoors from time to time but it is still pretty cold so the visits aren't long.
I am still trying to stay fit. I walked 6 kilometres today (4 miles) and did the eqivalent of 6 or 7 flights of stairs. Most of the climbing happens at the end of the walk as our condo is at the top of the hill. It just about did me in as my winter walks have been shorter. I have acid reflux tonight and would like to attribute it to the enormous amount of excercise I did! To be honest, it is probably the beer I had with dinner....
Update on the family. I am not sure if I mentioned that Cevyn was in a relationship. She was smitten. He seemed like THE one. I met him and was uncomfortable. Well my granny radar was right. He had been a drinker but was clean. I got a bit worried when he got drunk and was verbally abusive. She assured me that everything was good. (Never believe a girl wearing rose coloured glasses) Then a couple of weeks ago, they got engaged. I got really worried but was glad to hear they were planning on a wedding in a year or 2. Well, I guess he went oa a bender and drank so much he had to go to emerg to have his stomach pumped. Cevyn opened his computer and found that he had been communicating with other women. Cevyn is her mother's daughter. She packed up all his stuff and evicted him. He tried to justify everything but she is smart enough to know it is over.
The good thing is that they had just rented a brand new townhouse with 3 bedrooms and a den. She was worried about having to pay rent on her own but her step brother was looking to move out and is renting a room and helping with the rent. He comes with a little yappy dog named Estelle - Stella for short. The girls like having a cat and a dog!
Cevyn has not been able to work much this year as the spas are either closed or slow because of Covid. She had started looking for other jobs and started a new one at a Sephora brow bar yesterday. I'm not exactly sure what a brow bar is but she is happy. She said she was sick of doing pedicures. I hope all goes well. I am gathering she will be dealing with the top rather than the toes.
The twins are happy little preschoolers! They spend Sunday night to Thursday evening with Cevyn and the weekends with their dad. They are happy when Brendan picks them up on Thursday and happy when Cevyn picks them up on Sunday. Brendan and Cevyn are getting along a lot better too. They are now discussing school for the girls in September and seem to be on the same page. I am so relieved as they were not communicating much for awhile.
Life is a series of ups and downs. Easter is just around the corner. I am excited because we will be going to spend it with Andrew and Tiina. It will be the first time we've seen them since October. I really don't care if the province shuts down again - we are going!
Wishing all a very Happy Easter.
Lisa: I hear you when I am on my walks. I miss you always and love you forever, Mummy
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YAY on getting the vaccine! (had to LOL at "my little tribe of wrinklies"!) We got our first one on Monday and will get the second on in 4-5 weeks. Like you, we'll feel safer being out and about 14 days after our second shot, and we won't cancel our June trip this year!! And super big kudos for the LONG walks and exercise! I've completely let myself go...I was doing OK, then I stopped. No excuses, I just stopped. And it shows, LOL! YIKES.
I'm not sure about the older posts, but the only thing I can think of is what happens on the FMO website: whenever anyone comments on any post, it moves that post "up". Maybe that's what's happening here too?
I do remember you mentioning Ceyvn being in a relationship and that you had some concerns. I'm sorry you were right....but so glad she saw the truth and ended it before things went too far. I pray the young man seeks and accepts the help he obviously needs. And I hope Ceyvn and the girls, find their perfect match to continue their life journey with who will love them all unconditionally and completely. I know it's not that we necessarily "need" a partner, but it sure can make life wonderful when we have the right one! And I hope everything works out great with the new home and new job. Ceyvn is such a sweet and smart girl...I want EVERY GOOD THING for her and the kiddos!!
Enjoy Easter with Tiina and Andrew!!! WooHOOOOOO!!!
Tight hugs and lots of LOVE energy being sent! Thanks for sharing!
I see now which journals you are probably talking about...and they're mine, LOL! I've been rereading some of my older ones and I've noticed "way back then" we weren't required to give each one a title and many of mine don't have titles. As I would attempt to make any updates....such as change the audience (some of mine were marked "everyone" YIKES!")..... I wasn't able to save it until I gave it a title. It seems that action has caused those journals to pop up in the feed, so it is the same scenario as what happens on the FMO website. At least now we know!
You may notice a lot of mine in the next few days/weeks showing up again as I am determined to find all the "everyone" posts and change them to "friends". I guess in the beginning I didn't realize I was publishing to the entire world and for the last 14 years it hasn't entered my mind to "fix" it. Now I know and I'm working on it.
Ups and downs weren’t as noticeable when I was younger or before I lost matt. Makes me wonder. Enjoy your Easter...hugs and love
Hi Marlene, Just getting this post dated March 20th on June 10th, so I'm having the same problem that you are. Don't know what the issue is. Sending love & hugs to you & your family, especially your Lisa & those adorable twins!!!