The twisted dysfunction that is my family
Tonight one of my cousins confided to me that my other cousin had actually watched her father(this cousins uncle) rape her.This same cousin waited as a look out for this same man as he raped me. It confounds me to no end to try and figure out her reasoning behind doing that to not only me but my other cousin and possibly others. I know her to be a narcissist but what would motivate her to want to participate in others abuses?The truth will come out in the end and she will be seen as the completely horrible person that she truly is but I am astounded by how truly sick she is. I hope it breaks her mentally when she is exposed.
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I\'m surely hoping that your cousin is not an abuser too. However, I get this gut feeling that perhaps being the lookout could\'ve been her/his only way of escaping the abuse, or minimizing it. I\'m just very, very grateful that we are on this side of it all. I surely admire you Wheezie. Have an amazing day today.
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Phoebe
Thank you Cj! My cousin is a she that is one of the main things that confounds me.I am almost certain her father abused her too and made her into a narcissist by giving her anything she wanted in order to silence her.He and her mother still do that to this day and she is 36 years old.They bought her a house and pay all of her bills for her.I wonder if he bought her off to be a lookout for him as well.
The link you posted about narcissists said they will cling to a powerful person they think they can get something out of, like approval vicarious feel of power, who knows but I think I\'ve known people like your cousin. They remind me of rats somehow. Hope she gets what she deserves. Really hope you are well.
Thank you SaintKevin!