The Truth is on My Side
So my husband did not try to sabatoge anything, nor did he make a "big deal". I just got there, told him why we were going & we went.
However, when we came home, he did ask how it went & said (sarcastically), "So, is he crazy?" To which I replied no. AND I was able to give him what the doctor wrote out for my son (which is a 1 page t-chart, summarizing what he's good at, what he's average at, and what needs work). I figure he'd be able to handle that much better than a 40-page psychological report. Best part is that it (as well as the big report) states that our son doesn't have "emotional problems".
Of course, deep, deep down, I'm thinking "so there! They didn't just 'psychoanalyze' him & call him crazy! you were wrong!!!!" But I am good & didn't say that.
I'm a little mad at myself for letting my fear get the best of me. I now know I have nothing to fear. Especially when the truth is on my side.
However, when we came home, he did ask how it went & said (sarcastically), "So, is he crazy?" To which I replied no. AND I was able to give him what the doctor wrote out for my son (which is a 1 page t-chart, summarizing what he's good at, what he's average at, and what needs work). I figure he'd be able to handle that much better than a 40-page psychological report. Best part is that it (as well as the big report) states that our son doesn't have "emotional problems".
Of course, deep, deep down, I'm thinking "so there! They didn't just 'psychoanalyze' him & call him crazy! you were wrong!!!!" But I am good & didn't say that.
I'm a little mad at myself for letting my fear get the best of me. I now know I have nothing to fear. Especially when the truth is on my side.
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