The stigma

I had a few problems growing up with incontinence but grew out of it.Then later in life late 50,s started having problems and after some accidents told my wife.She strongly urged me back into diapers and got mattress protector for our bed to keep her dry.This is when the stigma about diapers started your mind plays games didn,t want anyone to know about the diapers.When we travel must pack enought diapers this is rough being the only one in diapers.My wife is a lot younger than me but no teasing also there is no ab/dl involged.Thanks