the saga continues....

Well, after our campus visit we paid a 1/4 of the tuition until we see what financial aid we'll get.  That's why we were there.  We also stopped by my new friend, the college admissions director for him to meet my son and husband.  The director said we'd get 100% back after one week, 90 % the next, and the third week it's even lower but his transcripts would show W's.  So......we'll see.  J is excited about school so......?? J's friend was downtown waiting for J to be finished so that they could meet one of the professional baseball players.  J was annoyed because he had had plans to meet his friend earlier but the extra meeting with the admissions guy made him late.  So he was a bit irritated by that and he was tired.  And then we announce that we have an appointment set up with him and a drug counselor and us tomorrow.  We told him we know and, of course, he denied it.  He did admit to smoking pot occasionally- as if that is okay.  He told us that he isn't going to go to the meeting.  I jumped and and said that he'll lose everything then - school and phone.  He said he doesn't care.  I talked to him later and told him we love him and have major concerns about him - he didn't want to listen.....