The rule of QUEST PHYSICS:

"If you're brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting (which can be anything from your house to bitter old resentments) and set out on a truth-seeking journey either externally or internally, and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue, and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared - most of all- to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself, than the truth (you seek) will not be withheld from you."
~Eat Pray Love~