The "right" woman...for me
Beyond the obvious visual attributes...
Physical. One who is physical. Very important. Likes to exercise, likes to dance, likes sex, finds something physically attractive about me. Athleticism: Very important. Met my share of cerebral, aesthetic, very pretty ladies, and, while it's been nice, on one level, the physicality just wasn't there, and I found it limiting. Rather than sink to their level, they're going to have to rise to mine.
Sense of humor. Generally, all the ladies I know have one, so this is not an issue. But don't be afraid to hurt my feelings, as I'm not afraid to hurt yours. You need a bit of a thick skin to be with me.
Just throwing it out there, into the cosmos, so God, Allah and anyone willing will do their part to send it to me...and will instill it into me to be the proper male counterpart.
Thanks for listening, everyone.
Physical. One who is physical. Very important. Likes to exercise, likes to dance, likes sex, finds something physically attractive about me. Athleticism: Very important. Met my share of cerebral, aesthetic, very pretty ladies, and, while it's been nice, on one level, the physicality just wasn't there, and I found it limiting. Rather than sink to their level, they're going to have to rise to mine.
Sense of humor. Generally, all the ladies I know have one, so this is not an issue. But don't be afraid to hurt my feelings, as I'm not afraid to hurt yours. You need a bit of a thick skin to be with me.
Just throwing it out there, into the cosmos, so God, Allah and anyone willing will do their part to send it to me...and will instill it into me to be the proper male counterpart.
Thanks for listening, everyone.
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you\'ve been reading the law of attraction LOL ;-)
I know the universe has the perfect female for you and that she is coming your way!!!!
Good luck Koolman.
I feel safe saying this to you because I\'m not single.....
Are you the type of guy that sits and talks about himself without getting to know the soul of another person, and in your case, future mate.
Anybody (it seems) can ride a bike and excercise and dance, but it\'s harder to find someone to scratch beneath the surface and learn about ones dreams and heartaches and childhood and passions and hopes and disappointments.
If I were having a coffee with you, I would be wondering if you cared about me for me, or for what I offer you. (hypothetically)
and it\'s a great comment, because maybe it will help you grow. Me too. Maybe these types of conversations will help me grow, because I haven\'t even been allowed to freely talk with men about this sort of thing because of a jealous spouse.
So, don\'t be offended. I just think it\'s interesting.
Thanks for accepting my friend request. :)
And how is YOUR life, Bridget lol?
Oh, I could share some woes. But we\'ve got to have FUN too! All this heavy emotional baggage (and, God knows I\'ve got my share of it) is draining and exhausting. The past is past and the future...who knows? We\'ve got to make TODAY what we want it to be. Seems to boil down to sex and fun physical pursuits, as well as warm relaxation.
I\'m happy Koolman. I love my work as a volunteer at the hospital, ride my bike there in good weather, and also ride my bike to the beach. I\'m about to start learning the guitar, and my piano is being moved into my condo on Saturday, so I am very happy at the moment.
Yes, agreed. Emotional baggage must be dealt with on an individual basis so that it free\'s oneself to pursuit all that life has to offer.
Cheers. :)
Glad you\'re happy, Bridget! Indeed, when burdens are removed, the mind is free to pursue love, beauty and pleasure, which is what\'s really important in life anyway, and sounds like you are. You sound like a wonderful, giving, caring person, with the volunteering and artistic pursuits. Have fun with the music! My sadness can be completely vaporzied with a warm, fuzzy soul to complement mine.