The pig tw picture
This is my cusin my abuser and this is the picture he had on facebook. I is a freshman in college this year and this is what is on his mind.. This picture scares the shit out of me, because what if he hurts some college girl?? then it will be my fault :'( ..... He will be back christmas vaca a day i'm dreadin... what should i do ?
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This picture is messed up, especially considering who he is and what he\'s done to you. But remember, it won\'t be your fault, regardless of what he does!! It\'s NOT your fault!! If he hurts another girl, that\'s on HIM. Not you!!!
But i didn\'t do anything to stop him
It does not matter if you did not stop him, he was the one who wronged you! You are not to blame and you cannot be responsible for his acts! You did nothing wrong and this was not your fault! (HUGS)))
Hey sis, dont make yourself responsible for him. you are a kind caring soul with a huge heart and naturally take on more than you deserve to. dont take the weight of his actions on your heart. if we all blamed ourself for others actions we would drive ourselves crazy. the guilt is not yours, its his. dont let his guilt and shame consume you. i love you to bits, stay strong!!