The one person who keeps hurting me

My relationship with my mom is getting worst and its really upsetting me. Yesterday i wore a cute long sweater i got for christmas and it got kind of itchy so i wore what i thought was cute a short sleeve orange shirt. My mom takes one look at me and the way she looked it was if she wanted to have a heart attack because according to her i wasnt matching. I thought what i wore was cute and she was making a big deal out of it. Seconds later she asked me if i would of dressed like that on an interview. That question made me mad, i dress the way i'm suppose to on an interview. I dont wear jeans or cut up shirts, i wear a nice shirt and black pants. My mom has always told me not to care about what anybody thinks and its hard for me to do that when she keeps insulting me on my clothes. I dont wear bad clothes, i thought i wore a cute shirt with my sweater. Most of my life shes been like that, half of the time i had to go and change what she didnt like. Later on this after noon, my mom has decided she wanted to take down the tree and i was a little confused because we always kept it up til new years.  My mom snapped at me. She told me i was making an excuse because i didnt want to take down the tree. I was just asking a question not trying to make an excuse. I dont like it when my mom snaps at me when all i am doing is helping her when she asks me to. I hate to admit this but she plays a major role in me beig unhappy. I cant even go back to my room and lock the door. I dont feel like i can go away to a place to be alone, it seems unfair. I just want to break down and cry.