The OLD bank told me...

I have a revolving CD at my old bank here in town that is,for right now, irrevocable and under my old name, Shane Poulain.  The Funeral home is the primary holder of the acct. and they have a copy of the Court Order for my NEW name, Jonathan David Marshall. They told me 2 months ago at the main bank, that the FUNERAL HOME CAN cash in the policy...Now today, it is a different story (that the funeral home cannot do it due to the status of it). The OLD BANK needs the following information (and I quote): " We will need proof of name change as well as a new contract with the funeral home stating the change of status from being irrevocable to revocable.  We will also need to consult with our legal counsel to see if you can do that or not, since was incurred on 4-19-2000. You should check in with legal counsel as well." Any ideas here? Are there any lawyers on DS? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!