The Lunch!

Lunch was nice, outside right on the Columbia River!  But I was uncomfortable. I can usually get comfortable around anyone but not today. He was a gentlemen, but I didn't enjoy myself.  I was eager to get lunch over and come home.  I don't think I was rude.  He wants to have a "date" again.  Was I just overwhelmed at the whole thing?  Should I give it another chance?  He wants to get together again for lunch or dinner.  What to do???

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deleted_user
deleted_user

You did it! It\'s going to be hard in the beginning. If it were me I\'d try it again. Have a relaxing lunch. I\'m really proud of you. I know that it\'s outside of your comfort zone, but you got out there.

Hugs, Carla
AlwaysDix
AlwaysDix

Linda, follow your gut.
Hugs, Va;
swindy
swindy

Linda, Do what you feel comfortable with. Don\'t give in to pressure. You will know when you are ready. Diane
deleted_user
deleted_user

okay. You did it. Only you can decide if you want to go out with him again. You will know if you are ready or not and if this gentleman is the right man at the right time - BUT I am so proud of you for going. Baby steps, like everything in this journey, baby steps.

Linda