The Lowdown

Before I update on my current status, I thought it best to provide a quick recap of my situation.

> Mid 50's Female

> Married 25 years, together 28 years.

> Have 14yo daughter

> Gave up career to raise daughter so husband could pursue his career, which required a lot of travel.

> Discovered online affair 4 years ago.  Went to counceling.  Husband went through the motions.

> Discovered affair 5 months ago -- we are now separated.

> Discovered husband is serial cheater, dating back at least 12 years.

> Daughter knows about current affair only.