The in-laws

Yesterday DH and I went shopping with his mom, his sister, and her two kids. The kids got hungry after awhile so we went to eat but my MIL stayed at the store longer, then met us at the restaurant. When she got there, she pulls out these baby outfits and baby items she bought for a friend's baby shower. She showed my sil every piece one by one right in front of me. Couldn't this have waited until another time? My husband imediately turned to look at my reaction. I just looked away, he knows that I look away am bothered. I sear they have no clue. But I remember that his mother was the one that told him that I shouldn't be upset about losing my daughter because "It happens, she needs to get over it and move on." She also told me recently, "You look so good! You lost alot of weight, wow at least you got your body back." She probably meant well, but didn't realize it. Either way I can't stand her for it. I don't know how to deal with their insensitivity, they think I'm over it because DH tells them I'm doing good. I may be good on the outside, but inside I'm broken. Ahhh.. I can't stand them!