The good things

All I have been doing the last few days is looking back at all the nice things my husband has done to help our relationship.  I know he has he faults, but most of it is much better than other situations I keep reading about.  I just have to keep reminding myself, that I HAVE to focus on ME right now.  And if he can hang on being that good guy while we are separated and when I feel like I can love me again; then we can get back together.  But then I feel like that kind of thinking is the loving too much.  It's really hard to figure out right now!

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penseuse
penseuse

Hi Moklette~
A separation is very difficult. I hope you can you the time to get very objective with yourself about your relationship. A good therapist can help a lot. Keep journaling - it\'s also a great way to see your progress. Much support~
moklettke
moklettke

Thank you Penseuse!