The cold hearts of some men

Well I know I've had my trouble with guys lately, but I believe my sister has truly gotten the short end of the stick.Okay, it started a few years ago, you see we go to the Universities to get more people to join our church. And one of the guys who put his name down, was Brad Mason. He wasn't anything special, average build, 5 ft 6-8, ginger haired, blue eyed and with a very smooth face which almost resembles a boys. Well this guy, Brad, was very outgoing and talked to everyone, even my sister Marie, and at one point he asked her to marry him. She decliened because she didn't think him anything special, and he's about 3 or so years younger than her. (She prefers men that are more older than her on the whole).Anyhow a year or so after he asked if she would wait for him if she went to the training, (our Bible school.) and well I don't know what she said, but I still don't think she was very keen on him. Anyway she tells me she thinks he may be the one because he's the only guy that's proposed to her and she has this feeling that it is him.So she decides to write to him in the email that she will wait, but he replies "I will only have you if you are well, and please don't write to me when I'm at the training because I don't want any distractions. I want to be fully concencrated to the Lord."All I could say when she told me this, was that the guy was a complete asshole! He didn't want to accept that this is how she is (she has bipolar) and he should accept for who is.Well my "dear mother" and I, thought that this asshole "Brad" may change his mind and see that you know, she is who she is, after a few more months at the training. But after Marie writes him a letter to ask if he still feels the same way about her.he replies, "I do not want to be destracted, he shouldn't even be emailing you here, I am trying to consecrate myself to the Lord. And he will be this way till 2011, but I don't want you to wait for me."Seriously this guy is a complete f**ken asshole! Because now he's made my sister upset, when she was feeling so well for so long, and now she doesn't think there is anyone who will marry her. The f**ken guy made her feel like a freak, by saying he wouldn't have her unless she was well. I SO WISH I COULD PUNCH IS FUCKEN FACE IN!