the adopotion of my great grandaughter..

The circle of this craziness needs to broken..I am not understanding why? My EGD only knows she doesnt like me but doesnt know why? Bre is 21 and has had a very hard childhood. Not understanding the reason why she doesnt like me was distrubing..I know why now.. she being a child then, only heard the harsh words coming from her mother about me . When I would show up to see the kids she would take off, not wanting to be with me. Now she is an adult , she wants to give me a chance to prove myself..am ok with that, but the hard thing here is she is pg and is giving the baby up for adopotion..She has the parents all pick out and what shes going to do. Very pre planned. I ask didnt she know that she should of been protected to prevent such a thing..It all started with my mother. You see I was adopted . My mother was 16 when she had us..I am a twin. My father was in the Airforce and was trying to help his parents coming to america. Not paying to much attention to his own family. Mother couldnt do it all on her own and gave us up for adopotion. Now comes me. I also had my ED at the age of 17..I didnt want to give her up,only wanting to be the mother, mine wasnt.. so now ED has had 4 children and has let the father,to raise them while she sooths her wild oats. All those children have seen is abandonment from their mother. Well here comes where that pattern needs to be broken but no! shes giving up to adoption..she said her dad told her"to face your responsiblitys"and deal with them. ! I am very torn with now, not ever knowing my great granddaughter..Ava June