THAT WAS A WOW MOMENT!!!
Thanks so much for taking time to read my journal. I was talking about this to my husband the other day and that is how I understood the process. It's not going to make it any easier but as all of you no matter what your going through we still have to go through the process. We don't want to, we would really not want to have to search for this meaning and the help we get. But you are all such great wonderful friends and since I am at this place in life, I am so glad to have found all of you.
Thanks for your friendship's, love each of you show me.
Sandi
Thanks for your friendship's, love each of you show me.
Sandi
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Sandi, I am also grateful to have you as my friend. Debbie
Sandi, you are nowhere near the acceptance stage. You will reach it someday, and it may be a long way off. We all reach it at different times. Most days, I have, but sometimes the circle starts again. Don\'t rush it. Hugs, Barbara
Hi Sandi,
I am glad this site is offering something positive for you to build on. Hugs, Inga
thanks to all of you. It is so nice to have soo many friends..You are totally right I am no where close to dealing with Kenny death I just hate that word. But with my plate being so full I am doing the bes I can
I agree with Doxylady, you can\'t fix grief without going through the process and it does take time. Wishing you a good day, and a peaceful weekend. Always here if you need someone to talk to.
That\'s the key. Just do the best you can. Wishing you peace and comfort. Truly, your friend, Barb
\"Grief is not a mountain to be climbed, with the strong reaching the summit long before the weak. Grief is not an athletic event, with stop watches timing our progress. Grief is a walk through loss and pain with no competition and no time trials.\" Glad you found this site and I\'m happy to be part of your circle of friends. Love to you. Robin
I like the way Robin4 has phrased our grief. I know for you as it is for me because we are running pretty close in this time frame of the loss of our sons that this grief is extremely painful. As every tells me, don\'t rush it, rest and take a day or even a minute at a time. Wishing you peaceful weekend and I too am glad to be in your circle of friends! Love and hugs ~ Sandi
yes Sandi, i am so very happy to be your friend also, we didnt pick our paths, just tryin to understand, and make it thru, another day,.. the feeling of missing your loved one, is overwhelming, to say the least,.. no one shoud say when you are about to have reached a place of peace, within,.. each one of us is different,.. and thats the way , its suppose to be,.. just so ya know, i think you are doing great,.. your getting out, making a go of it, like at the races , last weeked,.. no matter, how your feeling, and there you were, takin one day at a time, making it work for you! im so very pround of you, yes you are in the earlier stages,.. of greif, but your here, with us, so thats great, your really tryin, i can see that,.. and wish you strength, to keep pushing thru,.. here, or with a professional,.. both,.. your choice, my family doctor is pushing me to go to a professional, instead of the group sessions, mainly, because of the 2 groups that i tried, i didnt get enough, to keep going,. i may, not sure, it would\'nt hurt,.. im comming up fast, on the 1 yr, Good Friday,.. not so good for me, but, i didnt get there yet, so i shouldnt say that,..,.. thinking of you, and wishing the best,.. your friend, Dave
Thanks all and your all right I am not where close to dealing with my son\'s death. But do any of you feel like your just going through tying to look happy but so sad inside. I think it is hard but something we have to do I guess.
Sandi
The moms here are wonderful...and to answer your question (above)...early on you do a lot of faking it...eventually you do FEEL happier...time friend...time. Love and gentle hugs to you...karen
Love to you my friend no one wants to be part of our club but I cannot think of more amazing memebers.. love to you