Thanksgiving..lets honor Frank and others.
Lers honor Frank and the others by making the holidays as happy time and not a time of war.People just dont understand this.Every mother is different.We cant have our parents be something that they are not.We have to accept them as they are and acknowledge this..there are no books on parenthood.Parenthood does not come with a book.The World War 11 generation were overwhelmed and some of them did not help at that time because it was not available.Post Parum Depression was unheard of.It is only now that people talk about it.But cant people men/women agree that being a mother just aint all that great! Motherhood should not be forced on anyone.But when a woman gives birth..she has to do it alone.She gets no help at all in the house.I dont think that this will ever change..but I refuse to cook,clean and do things like a robot without any help.Taking care of a house is work enough.But owning a house hasnt been my dream at all.And at 61..I will never have a house..and I am glad about this.
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Yes, we think of our families that have passed on, remember their memories of course. All mothers are different. But there are women in this world who just wish to be a Mom. Times have changed so much, Day Care etc. is a necessity in order for families to keep up with expenses. However, all chores should be shared by both parents both children and house. This makes a happy family who grow together as a family unit. Owning a house myself, I love it. Yes, it has it the constant care, etc. but you can do what you wish when you wish. I would not trade it for anything. I rented for years and did not have much luck with that. You have a Safe and Wonderful Thanksgiving. Love and Hugs