Testing for my son

Kind of worried about proceeding with the asperger’s test.  The facility that was recommended to me says it takes 2 days.  2 whole days?  A few hours on separate days?  Will I be able to work it out logistically? Also worried about husband’s reaction.  I’m sure he’s going to freak out that I’m even going down this avenue.  On the other hand, I don’t feel that I can avoid it; after all, I owe it to my son to see if there is a problem or not.  I know I need to do this.  How do I emotionally handle the backlash? But I need to do this & deal with it.  And it just may boil down to that:  just deal with it.