Tears
2007 2008 2009 Dec 30 God choose to take my blue eyed baby home....Now it's 2016,and the tear are freely flowing I dont't think the hurt the pain ever goes away, it just you don't cry like you did in the beginning. Yet when the pain hits as strong as it did, the tears will flow, the pain will be hurting, your right back where you were. You feel your better and in someways you are but reality hits and your heart is breaking. All you want is your child back. Nothing can make sense to why this happened. All your heart can say I just want my baby back...The tears flow and there is no stopping them so you sit and let them fall and still wonder WHY....
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I know how much it hurts. It never goes away, we will forever mourn at one level or another. God Bless.
I wish I could tell you that the pain will go away, but it doesn't. It has been 11 years since we lost our Jeff. I don't have the drop-to-the floor pain like I did. I miss Jeff just as much but I don't cry as much. I thought I was going to die but somehow I got thru one Angel day, one birthday, one Christmas and all the other holidays. Cry all you want. Scream if you want to. There is no right or wrong way. Hoping for you some peace during the holidays...Hugs, Nell
We hurt together my dear friend. It will be 7 years on December 1. I have been crying for a few days now. The beautiful babies have arrived and I am so thrilled for Cevyn, but it breaks my heart that Lisa isn't here to be the awesome grandmother I know she would be. In short - it sucks.
I have appreciated you being there with me through thick and thin. I wish I could be there to hug you and cry together. Our kids are everything. Love, M
Understanding with you in only the way that another mother can. Let those tears flow as you are and feel the collective arms of your sisters of the heart giving you a tight heart felt (((hug))).
Loving care,
XO Joanie
I so understand "tears" - they seem to flow freely having a mind of their own. I believe those tears are unspoken words that our heart cannot say because the pain is too great. I'm with you, walking on this journey, crawling if need be.....((((hugs)))) Vicki
We will never understand why....... Many times I wish I could go back, and do some things differently, but that is not possible. The only things left are the memories, the hurting and the tears ......... Proof of our forever-love for our precious angels!
Tight hugs to you, my friend! xxx
The tears help your body relieve the tension grief creates. We all will cry and re live the pain of that awful day we lost a child. My sons angel date is coming on 12/20/16 this will be #8 I sometimes wonder where the time has gone, why they pain still lingers. This is a life long journey we must endure, I do hope your pain will lessen just a bit as the years go by.
Hugs Penny
(((((Tight Hugs)))))
Sandi, as you said, your son predeceasing you makes no sense..we just want our child/children back! I'm so sorry my friend. Let the tears flow as they may need to. I understand and I am hugging you in my heart.
Loving you and handsome Kenny, Linda