Talking

Well I was feeling so sad that I felt I needed to tlak to H. I told him I was still feeling resentful and that it really hurt that no matter how hard I worked at our marriage he never stopped seeing OW until I caught him in the act. He got mad and is now not talking to me.  he says I reminded him of what an a!?whole he has been but we are now not talking. My therapist said I needed to communicate more with him but i can't help feel like it hurt our relationship.  It did make me feel better though.