Take some time for myself
After your last letter I think I need to step back for a minute. I will always be there for you, but I need to take some time and regroup. I haven't taken any time for myself since our lives were turned upside down. I've been concentrating on my daughter's therapy and trying to help you. I'm beginning to feel the wear and tear on my mind. Don't worry. I will be back when just feel like I have my bearings back.
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It is important to make sure you take care of yourself.
I went through similar. My husband abuse my 2 daughters. I am still with him we are starting our 4th year of him being locked up. He has a long sentence. My initial thoughts were i wanted to kill him, then i was like he needs help. I went through a lot of different emotions and still do to this day.
Your daughter needs to come first before him. As I told my husband i still love him but my girls and myself come first. Luckily he is ok with this. He does not demand anything form me as he knows it is hard for me to keep our home, work, take care of the one daughter i still have at home and just do the normal daily stuff in life.
Be there for him if that is what you want, do not anyone tell you how you should feel. Each person feels differently.