Take a Deep Breath
I'm trying, I'm trying. Shit. I have gone all week with $7 in my bank account so that I could pay back the debt that shithead left me with. Verizon, all paid!! Gas and Electric, $200 balance due (after owing almost $800), can't pay Time Warner for cable and internet, but..... that's alright. I'm getting there!! But damn, I am lonely and bored home alone all the time. I need to get out, but how does a single woman do that? I mean, 55 years old, I'm going to go out alone to dinner or a bar? I know that I can go to the movies alone, I can go to the theatre, I can go to the orchestra, etc., but what if I just want to stop off for a nice glass of white wine? Oh well. Take it easy, San, the time will come.
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Sandy have you checked out any of the meetup groups in your area? I am the same age as you, and I have found a couple of groups that I really enjoy, and have made a couple of new girlfriends through them and then have had new people to enjoy making plans with and hanging out with. It really helps. Well done for getting most of the debt paid. PLease don\'t let another sponge into your heart? You deserve so much better!!
I\'m a softie, what can I say???
I will try a Meet Up when I\'ve given myself some time to heal. Thanks for the recommedation!!
Meetups is great even when you are working on healing because it\'s NOT A DATING SITE! It will get you out and about and have something to do besides sit around and brood. Give it a try. I think it would be the best thing for you right now. xoxo
You are in an area where your should be able to join a meetup group and that would be good for you. There aren\'t any in my area. Yes, I\'m tired of sitting home.