survived another December 1

Fall is always a bad time.  I think I wrote that I have had many losses of friends and family in the autumn months.  It all leads up to Lisa's Angel Day of December 1.  


The last week was the worst.  Joe suggested having one of our "What the Hell is He Cooking Now" dinners on Dec 1.  I said yes but was skeptical.  We usually spend it with a friend but she is on a 30 day cruise and safari!  So we invited our friends over and Joe did a movie themed dinner.  I am his sous chef!  It was a good plan.  We were busy for the couple of days prior.


We started with a toast to Lisa.  After that we had a great visit and ate weird and wonderful food for 3-4 hours!  


The blue soup was a bit of a bust (from Bridget Jones's Diary). He made it with spirulina - it was more green than blue but it is almost Christmas.  The salad had dressing on the side (Bridget Jones) - no orgasms were had.  The Timpano (Big Night) was the hit.  It is a layered pasta dish with meatballs, tube pasta stuffed with a ricotta filling, pepperoni and a tomato sauce. A cast iron pot was lined with lasagna noodles and the rest was layered in. Except for the fact that it didn't stand up well to the cutting, it was tasty and the leftovers went home with the guests!  Socca "Alla Hassen" (The Hundred Foot Journey) was delish.  Tamagoyaki ((Jiro Dreams of Suchi) was really good - Joe is getting better at his sushi rolling.   Dessert was Capezzoli di Venere (Amadeus) - translated Venus Nipples - truffles made with ground chestnuts in dark chocolate covered in white chocolate and a dark chocolate dot on the top.  They were yummy but there was no doubt they were homemade!!  With the truffles we had homemade eggnog (from most every Christmas movie ever made).   As usual Joe had too many dishes so we now have liver and fava beans tonight for supper (Silence of the Lambs).  Not surprising, the folks were not disappointed to miss liver...


It was a night that Lisa would have loved - entertaining at Christmas was something she did every year.  I think she was with us.  For years she had an open house afternoon at the beginning of December - she delivered hand made invitations to everyone in the neighbourhood.  Memories.


Wishing all a peaceful holiday season filled with love.

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LisaAngell
LisaAngell

Heart hugs for your beautiful Lisa.

Your entertaining with all the yummy foods sounds devine!!! What an incredible event you planned!!!
RememberKala
RememberKala

I'm sorry I've been absent from DS and missed your journal until now......and missed hugging you with my heart on "that day". (((hugs)))

The movie themed dinner party sounds amazing and so fun (well, except for all the work in prep and clean up that is!)!!!! The food sounds so interesting....and I would have loved the liver!!!

We were to have a "Who" Christmas this year (How the Grinch stole Christmas), and all were to wear costumes.....I have a dosey hanging in my closet that I found on Amazon. But with Susan (Chelsea's mom) battling breast cancer, she doesn't want to see anyone so Thanksgiving and Christmas, at least with her, were cancelled. Part of my Christmas dream will come true this year though.....my son and his wife will sit at our table on Christmas day!

Again, tightest of heart hugs as I know how hard this time of year is for you and Joe. I do hope you'll have a pleasant, if not happy, holiday. BIG LOVE!

Teri
CFMOM2
CFMOM2

What a wonderful way to honor your beautiful daughter!!! AMAZING. This time of year adds to the horror of our daily lives and yet we have to keep going. Thank you to you and Joe for showing us how. Peace!!!