surreal

Things are running very smoothly with T.  Naturally, I am suspicious at times - so I check his cell phone transactions and saw that he had made calls to his major drug using friend.  He made the calls but this guy never returned the calls.  Other than that.......he shows no signs of using.  He's been great, in fact.  He even reconnected with his sponsor and went to meeting last night.  Actually, I thought he was just meeting with his sponsor and then taking off with a friend - so when I called him, after my soccer game, and he didn't pick up -- I was a little concerned.  I didn't know he was actually going to an AA meeting - and that is why he didn't pick up!  Apparently,  his phone did ring (during the meeting) and that was when he turned it off.  Afterward, he told me to not ever call him during one of his meetings!  It was so wonderful to hear.  He wasn't mad -  I apologized - telling him that I didn't realize that was where he went!