Subtle Rage
You know, I think Ive just had enough... I really do. Dan's dad is over here nearly EVERY weekend... for nearly the entire week at a time. The man never gets full, he gets tired of chewing, plus... it's not natural for a parent to be hanging around their 30 year old kid THAT much. It really isn't. NOT NATURAL and it's really starting to aggravate me. Like, NO I dont want your dad around all the damn time, YES I'd like to be able to walk around my OWN FUCKING HOUSE Nude if I want to because I want to without having to stop and go "oooh but his dad's here" RAWR. And when his dad Isn't here (rare but still happens) he's calling every hour to talk for an hour. Really man? Cut the fuckin cord.
My dad? We might not talk for 2 weeks at a time. He gives me TIME to miss him, and I do. He doesn't invade the house, he doesn't bunk over for a week at a time... PERFECT. Not to mention, the house is actually in my father's name, and he's doing everything he can do to help me get on my feet and working and stable. So many blessings upon that saint's head.
I can't wait to get work, I really can't. I'll start working, save up and move out of this moldy house that's always making me sick. I'll take the pups and run. Dan? He's in school that IS his job (his words) SO.... it's up to me. I get to be the sugar mama. I have to go out there get the highest paying job I can get with the most hours available so I can support him. In the YEARS we've been together I think he's worked a grand total of 4 months out of 4 years. No, I'm not kidding.
Had to rant. Had to get it out.
My dad? We might not talk for 2 weeks at a time. He gives me TIME to miss him, and I do. He doesn't invade the house, he doesn't bunk over for a week at a time... PERFECT. Not to mention, the house is actually in my father's name, and he's doing everything he can do to help me get on my feet and working and stable. So many blessings upon that saint's head.
I can't wait to get work, I really can't. I'll start working, save up and move out of this moldy house that's always making me sick. I'll take the pups and run. Dan? He's in school that IS his job (his words) SO.... it's up to me. I get to be the sugar mama. I have to go out there get the highest paying job I can get with the most hours available so I can support him. In the YEARS we've been together I think he's worked a grand total of 4 months out of 4 years. No, I'm not kidding.
Had to rant. Had to get it out.
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Only do the things that make you happy and stop putting up with him crossing boundaries. I hope your Holidays are happier and don\'t forget to listen to some music and be happy. Cheers!