Stupid me!!
Well, I just went on a website were you can put your dates in and it will tell you how far along you are and when your due date is. That was so stupid of me. I have been trying to stay unconnected to this pregnancy. (for now at least) But now if I loss this baby I will have another day that is going to be extremly hard for me. My due date is September 21. My youngest son's birthday is September 20th so maybe it is a good sign! This is sooo hard!!
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it\'s not stupid to want to feel connected to the baby you are carrying. a loss is a loss no matter how connected or unconnected you feel. what you\'re feeling is normal but you have to try to enjoy this pregnancy at some point. take care. love and hugs, meg
Staying unconnected is very normal but as I am sure you are finding out, it is difficult to do. And even if you are unconnected, if you lose the pregnancy, it will still hurt! Try to enjoy it. You only get to be pregnant with this little one, one time. Praying for you!