Stuck in Kansas

My teenager is a junior in high school.  My STBX and I have always looked forward to her graduation so we could move either to the mountains or the beach.  I did not want her to change schools because she is shy and has a ton of friends here.  I don't think she would adapt very well to being the new kid in town.  Finally we were on the home stretch with her being a junior and now I am going through a divorce.  I want to get away from this place pronto, but I have a nine-year-old daughter who won't get to spend time with one of us if I move.  Dang, I want out of here so badly!  I just want to load up the RV and jet ski and head for Florida right now, but I don't want to take her away from her dad or move without her.  I am hoping for a miracle.