yes - very stupid - T didn't come home last night. I am so angry at my stupidity. What in the hell was I thinking? He was acting shady yesterday and squirmed out of celebrating his birthday in any shape or form. No brunch (like he said would work) no dinner out and we never got to sing to him - cake still sitting on the counter. PenPal - I do believe the other day was on the up and up but he kept talking about his b-day.