struggling with codependency

The other nite first off I was pretty upset then I started reading my book on codependencyand that just made me even more upset so I called a friend that struggles with it also..I am starting a new relationship and things have been pretty busy for him lately. So I took this as a sign that he was trying to blow me off, Man was I wrong!! Alittle bit after I calmed down he called and actually apolozied to me for being so busy!! It seems like everytime I started feeling like this he would call or text. I saw him last nite and told him how I was feeling, he knows about my past. He seemed compassionate about what I had gone thru and made sure tht I was no longer feeling this way..  I have never been with someone quite like him, he listens to me and is so understanding about what I have been thru and actually cant understand why anyone would ever treat me like I experienced in the past.  We have so much in common its freaky sometimes!!  just abut everytime he kisses me it melts me and I really havent had this before! I was thinking I wonder if he missed me, but I wasnt going to ask. I didnt want to come off as clinky but at the same moment he said I missed u!! I have high hopes for this one! I know its early but he has everything I had ever wanted in a relationship, he even has a little boy which I love about him. He always puts him first which I admire about him. He has this calming affect on me...