Stretching myself too far

I have reached a point that I now realize that I am stretching myself much too far. I lost a wedding that was scheduled for this Sunday probably because I am too busy on here doing something someone else could have done. Water under the bridge. I made a comment in my journal sometime back that I was going to cut back and now I know I must. I am doing it though by not participating in so many support groups and with so many friends. Adding friends for me has been to see if I could help someone with an ailment from a support group that I participate in, but in most cases we never really become "friends". I do have about 10 friends here (no names) that I send and receive messages from on a regular basis so you know who you are. You I will definitely keep, and a few others that I feel might become friends of that same message status, the other I will most probably remove. I will drop most of my support groups except those most dearly to me.  I have just taken on way too much, forgive me!