Stress, Drama, and Inmate Releasing
It comes in threes is what they say. I sure hope so because in more thing this week and I will be over my limit.
First thing is a major contact coming into play at work. I won the bid on a job but now I have to complete the contract and they are being slightly more picky and demanding than I had original expected. It is ok in a way because by being so specific and picky they are in fact backing themselves into a very tight corner with respect to what we can and can not do for them. Sometimes it eliminates work because they may overlook something that would normally be standard service items.
Then I have the ever popular family drama. I am graciously raising my brothers five children and my other brothers two children . Well go figure that the one who is would be the one that is a bigger dead beat than the dead one was. Brandon has missed yet another month of paying me for the kids expenses. I don't get it. He makes plenty and is stationed over seas at the moment. He has limited expenses and should be banking plenty of money, yet he cant afford to make their prepaid college plan payments or send me money for food, cloths, and medical bills. Last month along I spend over 300 dollars on doctors visits and prescriptions for four kids. Does he think I am lying about the expenses. I even put out extra money of my own for their extra curricular activities and my nephew god bless his soul has a private tutor. You would think a successful father would know he needs to provide for his children.
Last but not least I get this letter this morning from Florida Department of Corrections informing me that my rapist is being released this coming December. I now have an entirely new fear to worry about. The fear that he will not stop at just writing me letters like he has been doing. I worry he will come and see Bailey. I worry so much it makes me shake at times. Now that fear I have always had is coming closer to being a real threat.
First thing is a major contact coming into play at work. I won the bid on a job but now I have to complete the contract and they are being slightly more picky and demanding than I had original expected. It is ok in a way because by being so specific and picky they are in fact backing themselves into a very tight corner with respect to what we can and can not do for them. Sometimes it eliminates work because they may overlook something that would normally be standard service items.
Then I have the ever popular family drama. I am graciously raising my brothers five children and my other brothers two children . Well go figure that the one who is would be the one that is a bigger dead beat than the dead one was. Brandon has missed yet another month of paying me for the kids expenses. I don't get it. He makes plenty and is stationed over seas at the moment. He has limited expenses and should be banking plenty of money, yet he cant afford to make their prepaid college plan payments or send me money for food, cloths, and medical bills. Last month along I spend over 300 dollars on doctors visits and prescriptions for four kids. Does he think I am lying about the expenses. I even put out extra money of my own for their extra curricular activities and my nephew god bless his soul has a private tutor. You would think a successful father would know he needs to provide for his children.
Last but not least I get this letter this morning from Florida Department of Corrections informing me that my rapist is being released this coming December. I now have an entirely new fear to worry about. The fear that he will not stop at just writing me letters like he has been doing. I worry he will come and see Bailey. I worry so much it makes me shake at times. Now that fear I have always had is coming closer to being a real threat.
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Can\'t you use those letters as a sign of threatening behavior to block his parole? I\'m sure a pro bono lawyer could assist you on it. Or if his time is served, it\'s still a violation of terms of his imprisonment in most states anyways.
Point is, you have recourse and options. So please be focused more on that than on fear.