Strength

How much do I need to keep going through this?  I am so empty.... I got my BFN today, I know it was only my 1st IUI, but everything went "right."  Is this all a joke?????????????????????

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Kim, I also got a BFN on my first IUI. It was one of the worst days of my life, I know how you feel. I put so much hope into it and we had great numbers and everything but still no pregnancy. As hard as it is and seems imposible especially right now it does get a little easier to accept. I have had to start over from scratch mentally and emotionally but we are going to try it again. I wish I could give you a hug in real life. PLEASE let me know if you need to talk....
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Awww, Kim. I\'m so sorry. I actually started spotting today, too. So it looks like we will be suffering through AF together. For some reason, I never knew that you had endo. My doc is now suspecting endo as my cause of infertility and would like me to have a lap done. What signs did you have, if any? Did you do the lap surgery and what was the recovery like? You are in my prayers.
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so sorry about your bfn. i have been through many with iui\'s and one cycle of ivf behind us. hang in there. we will get our babies soon.
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I know it is hard. I believe it will happen for you. I am praying that you will get your BFP soon. I will pray for strenght for you as well.