strangely calm

we didnt get good news for dad.....they told us he a few months with no treatment and maybe a year with treatment. I am happy that he decided to try the treatment, so that makes me think he hasnt given up.
I seem to be comforting everyone else and i seem to be accepting it with no emotional fallout......does this make me a bad daughter or have i not faced it yet ot have i just accepted whatever happens in my life with zen......or is the fallout coming?
My daughter called last night....she was worried that she might have to take her cat in to be put to sleep.....he has urinary tract disease and he was retaining urine.....i havent heard what happened and i dont want to wake her if she is sleeping after it happened....if she had to do it her boyfriend was going to go with her.
so many bad things are surrounding me right now and i seem to be accepting it all and i keep expecting things to get better.