Strange weekend
After dreading the three day weekend, by stbx asked to spend some time with me, he ended up coming over Friday night and staying till sunday. Very cuddly, very nice and happy. We had a good time. Of course no sex, that hasn't been on the table for a looonnnng time. So I have to ask him, what is this? What are we doing? He says why question it, just have a good day.
I ask are we a couple, he says he doesn't know. Can I see other people? I 'm so confused, it was the best couple days we've had so I didn't want to ask to many questions. But I really will have to think hard if I can be happy in a sexless marriage again. Maybe I can, I just have to change my perspective.
I know this sounds weird, but I wish he'd meet some really hot girl that was really into him and maybe help him get over this weird psychological rut he's gotten into. I really don't think he turned asexual over the last couple years. I thinks its in his head, and maybe some girl could bring that back for him.
I ask are we a couple, he says he doesn't know. Can I see other people? I 'm so confused, it was the best couple days we've had so I didn't want to ask to many questions. But I really will have to think hard if I can be happy in a sexless marriage again. Maybe I can, I just have to change my perspective.
I know this sounds weird, but I wish he'd meet some really hot girl that was really into him and maybe help him get over this weird psychological rut he's gotten into. I really don't think he turned asexual over the last couple years. I thinks its in his head, and maybe some girl could bring that back for him.
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Does he have low testosterone or erectile dysfunction? He may have an undiagnosed Pituitary Adenoma...or clinical depression.
He had his testoterone checked, the doctor said it was the highest he\'s ever seen. I think it has to do more with clinical depression but I\"m going to look up the Pituitary Adenoma, never heard of that! And believe me, I\'ve researched this thing to death. thanks for the tip!
There are a lot of meds out there that cause low labido or no labido! Maybe he needs to check into a med change if he is taking any for his depression.
I really think you should ask your self this question. What do i want and what will make me happy ? There are always hurdles to get over in any relationship, but if there is nothing or very little in the relationship that makes you happy then its not a realtionship its servatude!
Best of Luck and hugs :)