Storage Unit Troubles...
When I decided to break up with Taz, obviously...this was not the typical breakup. We have been together 4.5 years and had a storage unit together. She had been paying on my loan because I made less money while living in Germany, and she wanted to help out.
Naturally, she was always complaining about how expensive I was. Mostly she bitched about my school loan, but lately she has been bothering me about the storage unit she pays on. I guess I would understand if it was just my storage unit. but it's not. All of her things are in that unit as well, and she does not pay a dime extra because my things are in there. Granted, without my stuff, she might be able to downsize a little...but damn.
What frustrates me more is that she promised to take care of the storage payment until I got a job or until I could get my stuff out. she made this promise AFTER we had broken up!!! But now she is always changing her mind, wanting me to pay her back for all those years she was the only one paying on the storage unit and etc. She is always threatening to toss my stuff out if I don't get it (which, she is back in the USA and I'm still in Germany)...and what pissed me off the MOST today was when she had the balls to say that my new g/f (Sage) had to "Step Up".
Lets gets something straight here...Sage and I just got together. I'm not about to shove my bills down her throat and make her pull me out of the hole that I dug for myself. On top of that, even though Sage wants to be a provider for me, she is going through her own issues right now. She just got out of a relationship as well, and the woman she left bled her fucking dry. She is trying to pay her credit card off, trying to pay some backed up bills. She still has car tickets to pay among other things that people left for her because they don't care that she is getting screwed over. She is trying to fix her own financial stuff right now, so why would I tell her to take on my issues as well? That's dumb...and it's not how relationships work.
Sage does step up...she was there when Taz wasn't. she brought me back to life again. She does for me things that Taz could never do...I'm not an object to Sage, I'm a person...I'm special, and I am loved unconditionally.
That's all I could ask from Sage...to be loved, to be held. She makes me feel safe, she makes me happy, and that's more important to me than her money.
But then Taz wants to get mad because I call her out for being an asshole. She uses the storage unit as leverage so that she can feel better than Sage and it pisses me off! I'm tired of being threatened by her...so I have to figure something out. I need to get my stuff out of there ASAP so that I can get out of Taz's hair, and she can get out of mine.
Sage has duty tonight...so I'm going to take this time to get some stuff done.
Naturally, she was always complaining about how expensive I was. Mostly she bitched about my school loan, but lately she has been bothering me about the storage unit she pays on. I guess I would understand if it was just my storage unit. but it's not. All of her things are in that unit as well, and she does not pay a dime extra because my things are in there. Granted, without my stuff, she might be able to downsize a little...but damn.
What frustrates me more is that she promised to take care of the storage payment until I got a job or until I could get my stuff out. she made this promise AFTER we had broken up!!! But now she is always changing her mind, wanting me to pay her back for all those years she was the only one paying on the storage unit and etc. She is always threatening to toss my stuff out if I don't get it (which, she is back in the USA and I'm still in Germany)...and what pissed me off the MOST today was when she had the balls to say that my new g/f (Sage) had to "Step Up".
Lets gets something straight here...Sage and I just got together. I'm not about to shove my bills down her throat and make her pull me out of the hole that I dug for myself. On top of that, even though Sage wants to be a provider for me, she is going through her own issues right now. She just got out of a relationship as well, and the woman she left bled her fucking dry. She is trying to pay her credit card off, trying to pay some backed up bills. She still has car tickets to pay among other things that people left for her because they don't care that she is getting screwed over. She is trying to fix her own financial stuff right now, so why would I tell her to take on my issues as well? That's dumb...and it's not how relationships work.
Sage does step up...she was there when Taz wasn't. she brought me back to life again. She does for me things that Taz could never do...I'm not an object to Sage, I'm a person...I'm special, and I am loved unconditionally.
That's all I could ask from Sage...to be loved, to be held. She makes me feel safe, she makes me happy, and that's more important to me than her money.
But then Taz wants to get mad because I call her out for being an asshole. She uses the storage unit as leverage so that she can feel better than Sage and it pisses me off! I'm tired of being threatened by her...so I have to figure something out. I need to get my stuff out of there ASAP so that I can get out of Taz's hair, and she can get out of mine.
Sage has duty tonight...so I'm going to take this time to get some stuff done.
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