Still stuck...

I want to get out of this funk... I need to focus on business or something... I feel worthless, useless and so many other things... I know I'm not supposed to compare my life to others but I mean really... I have no home of my own, no job, a business/salon that is pretty much starting over, a broken family, dying spirit, and torn soul... not to mention my broken heart. I have no idea how to begin to repair any of it... I see so many people happy in their homes, traveling with their loved ones, new engagements and so much other progression. While I'm just here stagnant, broken and incomplete. 
I get people telling me to love myself first but how do I do that when I'm steadily shown there's nothing to love. I give everything I have, things I don't have, tried learning myself, tried to become others and nothing has worked. I'm running out of ideas. Time... Hope...
Did the Goddess forget about me? Has she forgotten my soulmate, my life partner, the one who completes and heals my heart...?
I dont want to think about it anymore... Tired of the tears, tired of the pain... Is there some way to become all consumed with work? 
Please Goddess help me!!!