Still sober but the honeymoon is over

I have been through this before and the very beginning of sobriety is so wonderful! You want to skip through the dasies and such. ;) Well, now I'm looking at everything from a sober perspective and it's a little painful sometimes. Wish my hubby would go to therapy with me but he has never wanted to and it's pretty obvious he isn't interested now. Hard living with a "retired workahlic".