still so sad ....
Coming close to 2 years... Wow where has the time gone ? Still have tears not so often ...
still miss you everyday and think about you all the time , why, why, why.... busy with
lots going on, ready to sell the house which makes me so sad, it's too big and I'm tired of
the bills and maintenance, I hope I'm making the right decision and you understand as I
know you didn't want me to have to "give it away" I won't, I pray a nice family will purchase the house and create memories that were suppose to be ours.... I miss you and I love you and I still have too many regrets , this too shall pass... I have so much to be grateful for yet I remain so very sad and lonely for you ... I hope you are happy & healthy once again and Ben & Sam are with you ...
still miss you everyday and think about you all the time , why, why, why.... busy with
lots going on, ready to sell the house which makes me so sad, it's too big and I'm tired of
the bills and maintenance, I hope I'm making the right decision and you understand as I
know you didn't want me to have to "give it away" I won't, I pray a nice family will purchase the house and create memories that were suppose to be ours.... I miss you and I love you and I still have too many regrets , this too shall pass... I have so much to be grateful for yet I remain so very sad and lonely for you ... I hope you are happy & healthy once again and Ben & Sam are with you ...
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I am coming close to two years also and share the frustration of a big expensive house. I will sell in a year, that is my plan. I was going to sell sooner but things came up and I need to recoup financially. The time went by so fast..I wish you the very best in your selling and transition. I feel sort of robbed, it wasn\'t supposed to be this way. Hugs Linda
thank you ...robbed may be an understatement .... my house will probably take a year to sell as we built it for us and it\'s not an open floor plan, the kitchen
doesn\'t open into the family room and people with small children aren\'t looking for it , I had it for sale last summer and that was the general comments so it goes ... I do have faith that God has my plan in his hands and it will all work out .... as miserable as I can be somedays everything seems to always work out and for that I am thankful... are you coming to widow camp ? I think you are friends with Linda who lives in CA & AZ and she is driving down Friday we are only attending saturday\'s events.... be well ...
Hugs to you as you begin yet another stage of the journey. I will be putting my house up for sale next spring. Same reasons: too big, too much maintenance. I\'m sure God has a plan for us - let\'s just hope it is a better plan than the last one!
Linda
Tracy... I am praying that your absolutely beautiful home will sell in God\'s perfect timing!! I also must decide what to do with my CA home. But, i\'ve decided to hang on longer before i try to sell it.
i\'m so looking forward to seeing you on Friday, Tracy!! Hugs.....
Tracy,
I hope your home will sell quickly now that you have made the decision to move. I loved what you said about \"the memories that were supposed to be ours\". I just leased one of our homes to a lovely couple from Brazil and I, too, hope they will make happy memories in the home. I would love to sell the home but the market has tanked in FL and I no longer wanted to be there without Jim. So many sad adjustments that we have to make after a loss......
Hugs, Dianne
Sending you hugs. I know it. Just when we think we are on the road to healing it takes us into a curve. We just have to trust in the lord to take of us. I pray your house sells. You sent me Widows camp info I wish I could join you but cannot take the time to go. My daughter is starting school. Blessings to you. Edie