still so sad
im still finding things hard today,its painful knowing he dosent love me anymore.the kids still havent spoken to him and i cant believe he can come in and out of thier lives like they dont matter.i have made some good friends on here and im so thankful for the advice i am given,its so good to know things will get better.
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It is very hard to realize that they do become selfish. I don\'t know if it has to do with some hormone, or what. If he has a honey (I don\'t know if that is your case) usually they have dopamine working so hard having them have highs with the other person and just getting in the way of thinking logically. but they do become selfish, and it is so sad that those feelings command them, overriding those feelings and sense of responsibility for their children. It is very hard, but you and your children will eventually come out of this successfuly.
thankyou for your advice,im at the stage at the moment were i want nothing from him anymore and if the children dont get from him what they want im still here for them and in time when he decides he wants to contact them it will be thier choice.and he will only have himself toblame if they are mad at him.